maybe it's us.

so i was driving home tonight and was listening to the new taylor swift cd. that song better than revenge was on and it just hit me, the last bit says "im just another thing for you to roll your eyes at honey you might have him..." i realized that relationships are just cycles. someone will take them from you, but you took them from someone else. its pointless for us to harbor resentment or anger against those they chose over us. in the end were going to do it to someone else. my friend was telling me that this girl he was seeing decided they should break up for a while. she wanted to be single for spring break which is just shady but i dated a guy like that. each one of my friends has too. the people who do these sketchy things are the ones who dont understand they are just part of the relationship circle of life. we all get on and we all get off. its hard to always blame the other person in the relationship, we all crash and burn. we have a tendency to say they did this or that but we all do it too. if we keep this mentality that he left me then im going to hate him forever, then thats as childish and immature as he probably was. ive decided holding that grudge is a waste of my emotions and i dont need to be held back when there is someone out there who will treat me right and maybe he wont leave me. we all need to realize that there isnt a single person out there who wont do us wrong, its impossible. get over perfection and recognize the fact were in the real world and thats just how it is. im going to start living my life without resentment and pent up anger. i cant blame him and im not going to blame her, im over it and will continue moving on. i only wish you guys the best.